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Why concentrating on the orgasm often leads to frustration and blame and little success.
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Why concentrating on the orgasm often leads to frustration and blame and little success.

Many women struggle to orgasm, some have never done so, despite their partners trying so hard. In fact it seems...
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Dealing With a Difference in Libido
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Dealing With a Difference in Libido

This piece is written from a heterosexual viewpoint, but I think all might find points of commonality or points that...
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The Benefits of Debriefing After Sex
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The Benefits of Debriefing After Sex

The day after my first sexual experience with my current partner was a bit weird for me, because he asked...
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What is Consensual Non-Monogamy, And Why Is It So Intriguing And Controversial?
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What is Consensual Non-Monogamy, And Why Is It So Intriguing And Controversial?

Let us look at something most people shy away from, and frown upon – Consensual non-monogamy.   Consensual non-monogamy covers many...
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Sext It Up: Talk Dirty To Me
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Sext It Up: Talk Dirty To Me

From Boys to men who say, “I'll make love to you like you want me to” to Cardi B who says “I wanna spit, I wanna gulp,...
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Confidently Single
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Confidently Single

***Written by Guest Author Lesley J Adams*** Valentine’s Day, or better known to the singletons as “Single Awareness Day” is...
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7 Butt Plugs We All Want
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7 Butt Plugs We All Want

Butt plugs have come a very far way since the initial introduction by Dr Young. He claimed they corrected: constipation,...
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Why do people get into BDSM?
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Why do people get into BDSM?

You will be surprised to find out that as Lady Gaga says “I'm on the right track baby, I was...
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A High Impact Play
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A High Impact Play

Impact is often an integral part of a Play/Scene and a Top must be proficient with an implement before considering...
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Contrasting Sensations Impact Play
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Contrasting Sensations Impact Play

Once you have some experience as a Top and feel you are ready to move on from a sensual play,...
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A Sensual, Light Impact Play
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A Sensual, Light Impact Play

When introduced to BDSM, it is quite common to feel as if you have entered into a whole new world...
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Aftercare: The What, The How, and The Why
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Aftercare: The What, The How, and The Why

Aftercare is as important as a play itself. I have even written aftercare into contracts before, because inadequate aftercare can...
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How To Be Part Of The BDSM Lifestyle.
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How To Be Part Of The BDSM Lifestyle.

When starting to explore BDSM, remember that there’s no need to rush to create your own perfectly stocked dungeon room....
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Safety: More than SSC and RACK
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Safety: More than SSC and RACK

You may have already heard the terms SSC (Safe Sane Consensual) and RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink).  Both of these are important considerations before...
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What is BDSM?
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What is BDSM?

BDSM participants identify themselves in one of three main ways: dominant, submissive, and switch (as changing between the first two)....
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7 Reasons You Should Support Local Businesses.
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7 Reasons You Should Support Local Businesses.

When you personally know the people behind the business where you’re buying local products and services, you enjoy a connection you...
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