Why do people get into BDSM?
You will be surprised to find out that as Lady Gaga says “I’m on the right track baby, I was born this way” and yes I know she wasn’t talking about being kinky but the sentiment applies.
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40cm Black Silicone Tail Butt Plug
R325.00 Incl. VATLooking for the ultimate kinky anal stimulation toy to spice up your role play and sexual adventures? This short furry black fox tail with a well-designed butt plug is your answer. It is guaranteed to bring that foxy tail fetish into reality and take your role play to the next level. It is the perfect turn on for your partner as you immerse yourself in powerful orgasms with this bold-looking foxtail. Get foxy in your kinky expeditions with this cute, luxurious butt plug.
40cm White Stainless Steel Tail Butt Plug
R350.00 Incl. VATThis is another white elegant short tail designed to fulfill all your kinky needs any time you feel like taking your role-play to a more exciting level. The beautiful short tail features a fluffy supple fox tail made of high-quality materials that look like a real fox tail. It has a smooth, high-quality stainless steel plug that’s easy to use and does last long too.
40cm Black Stainless Steel Tail Butt Plug
R325.00 Incl. VATLooking for the ultimate kinky anal stimulation toy to spice up your role play and sexual adventures? This short furry black fox tail with a well-designed butt plug is your answer. It is guaranteed to bring that foxy tail fetish into reality and take your role play to the next level. It is the perfect turn on for your partner as you immerse yourself in powerful orgasms with this bold-looking fox tail. Get foxy in your kinky expeditions with this cute, luxurious butt plug.
80cm Black Stainless Steel Tail Butt Plug
R525.00 Incl. VATGet the bold foxy style in your kinky role play with this long black coloured fox tail butt plug. It is designed to make your erotic games even more intense and satisfying. It introduces an even wilder but softly elegant element to your sensual fun. The long flowing black tail is just the perfect ingredient for a more adventurous role play.
It features a smooth metal plug made of 100% safe for use stainless steel material. The plug is smooth enough to slide in and stay put without coming off as you enjoy your hot action. It can even be lubricated for easier insertion. Stainless steel doesn’t stain or rust which makes this fox tail extremely durable.
The black fox tail plug also makes a perfect gift for your sexual partner. This is an awesome gift that will send your partner wild with desire.
80cm Silicone Brown Tail Butt Plug
R525.00 Incl. VATThis is a real-looking fox tail butt plug made with synthetic fox fur. It is designed to bring out the real boudoir in you and add more fun to your role play. If you are looking for a really hot way to set the mood for a night passion, then grab this wild foxy brown tail plug.
The long brown furry tail comes with a smooth metal plug made of safe, non-toxic stainless steel material. It’s smooth enough for easy non-painful anal stimulation. Lube it with your favorite lubricant for more intense results.
The plug is made of safe medical grade stainless steel. It is available in small, medium, and large sizes to fit every user. You’ll definitely get a size you are comfortable with. Most users of this brown plug have expressed great satisfaction with its natural wild look and performance.
The tail end has rich, fluffy brown fur that feels soft to the skin, thanks to a smooth texture and solid construction. The tail is long enough with a length of between 75 and 80 centimeters. The entire tail weighs just 97.5g despite its full fluffy fur and length. It’s a super elegant yet wild toy for those special nights of fun and sexual exploration.
The long brown fox tail butt makes a perfect gift for your partner too. Start exploring the wild side of sex with this real-looking fox tail butt plug.
80cm Stainless Steel White Tail Butt Plug
R525.00 Incl. VATThese stunning stainless steel plugs are beautifully designed for comfortable long-term wear. Enjoy a constant sensation as these plugs weigh more than others while the fluffy design detailing on the handle of the plug adds a little sparkle.
80cm Red & White Silicone Tail Butt Plug
R495.00 Incl. VATIf you like animals and role-playing, then bring out your hidden animalistic talent when you put on this Silicone Red and White Tail Plug! Its sleek aesthetic is designed to meet your animalistic demands. With regular use, you can spice things up in the bedroom. At the same time, it’s an excellent device to explore the limits of both partners.
Black & Purple Suede Flogger
R450.00 Incl. VATOur suede premium flogger features a wonderful spread of suede tails. It is a medium intensity impact flogger with a bit less sting then it`s leather counterpart. Available in a variety of stunning handle patterns, and matching pineapple knots, this piece makes the perfect addition to any collection.
Leather Flogger with Glass Handle
R450.00 Incl. VATThis glass & leather flogger features genuine bull leather tresses that are soft enough for beginner play but heavy enough to deliver a firm whack. The heavy-duty weighted glass handle is hand-blown and doubles as a glass dildo for vaginal or anal play. The beautiful textured swirls provide added stimulation, and the glass handle can be heated or cooled for tempting temperature play.
For temperature play, hold the glass under hot water for a warm, sensual massage or for a warm, more natural feeling penetration. Or… place the handle in cold (or icy water) water to chill the handle. Enjoy watching the goose bumps and rock-hard nipples.
The handle itself measures 6.5 inches long and 1.5 inches wide.
The glass is easy to clean, hypoallergenic and non-porous. Simply wash with soap and warm water, taking care to keep the leather dry. Do not use in the microwave or dishwasher.
SIlicone Bunny Butt Plug
R275.00 Incl. VATThe bunny tail is one of the most fascinating things to look at. The short and fluffy backside of this adorable creature is a source of inspiration for a number of things. The fascination extends to the more naughty aspect of butt plugs where the rabbit tail has gained quite a big fandom. OurColored Bunny Tail Butt Plug 7 Inches Long has captured this huge excitement of bunny tails and made it into a great butt plug!
BSwish Bnaughty Deluxe Unleashed
R925.00 Incl. VATIndulge in mischievous play with the Bnaughty Deluxe Unleashed. But beware, this silicone waterproof bullet with 6 escalating speeds offers ethereal ecstasy. Whether alone or with a playmate, its wireless remote allows you to surrender to a plethora of sensations at the push of a button – with or without its remote control. Our pulsating bullet is made from nonporous, body-friendly silicone and PU coated ABS plastic that’s simple to clean and sensual to the touch while a seductive red backlight
BSwish Bnaughty Deluxe – Royal Purple
R675.00 Incl. VATThe Bnaughty Deluxe’s waterproof bullet has an almond-shaped design to perfectly pinpoint all pleasure zones. 6 functions powered by a wire-connected remote and made from nonporous silicone and super glossy ABS plastics offers enjoyment and the freedom to play wherever is chosen.
BSwish Bhandy Classic – Pearl
R605.00 Incl. VATSometimes pleasure needs more than just a hand. The Bhandy Classic ensures a firm grip on intense orgasms with a silky soft interior texture. Using 100% body-safe TPE, its perfect for solo stimulation or boosting oral play with a partner. A discreet and compact design makes it an ideal travel buddy, especially since no batteries are required. Easy snap-on protective caps, removable sleeve, and waterproof clean-up keep the Stroker tidy while on the move.
BSwish Bgood Classic – Jade
R480.00 Incl. VATBe Good to Yourself…It’s always all good with our modern and minimal Bgood Classic. The firm, waterproof Bgood Classic hits the mark each and every time with 5 exhilarating functions. With the push of a button, you’re in control of just how good or bad you want to be.
BSwish Bwild Deluxe Bunny
R910.00 – R920.00 Incl. VATPleasure Untamed…
A female favourite, this rabbit massager has been reimagined for instinctual control and uninhibited play. Velvety smooth and perfectly contoured from its gradually widening body to the precision pointers Bwild Deluxe Bunny works overtime so you’re sure to become untamed.
BSwish Bwild Classic Bunny
R605.00 Incl. VATPleasure Untamed…
With 5 functions and 2 individual motors, our Bwild Classic Bunny can’t be tamed. A waterproof, curved shaft paired with its precise tickler has this pocket pet working overtime for next-level sensations you’ll simply adore
BSwish Bcute Classic Curve
R420.00 Incl. VATIndulge in Flirty Fun…
The Bcute Classic Curve’s precise, curved tip provides the perfect angle to pinpoint all your favourite spots. 5 powerful functions make this discrete waterproof device your best-kept secret – and because of its unique design, you’ll experience electrifying pleasure by finding your ultimate spot.
Perfect for use with Pjur Aqua Lubricant and Pjur Toy Cleaner.
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BSwish Bwild Classic Marine
R605.00 Incl. VATB Swish brings you this gorgeous, delightfully manageable 5-function silicone rabbit massager with 2 individual motors, ready for waterproof fun.
With a slim tilted shaft and a smooth but precise tickler, the Bwild Classic Marine will satisfy the solo pleasure seeker, though it’s certainly suited to couple geared scenarios too!
Perfect for use with Pjur Aqua Lubricant and Pjur Toy Cleaner.
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BSwish Bwild Deluxe Bunny
R910.00 – R920.00 Incl. VATThe Bwild Deluxe Bunny Vibrator by Bswish, for both G-Spot and Clitoris stimulation, has 6 Vibration functions and a waterproof design, a contoured head and flexible rabbit ears. The result is a pleasure-packed vibrator that really knows how to drive you wild!
Perfect for use with Pjur Aqua Lubricant and Pjur Toy Cleaner.
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Rocks-Off Oriel Rechargeable Wand
R1,065.00 Incl. VATDiscrete in appearance but powerful in performance, Oriel is the perfect vibrator wand for couples, explore each other’s bodies with its 10 deep vibrations. The vibrators egg-shaped head and flexible 360 flex neck allow precision stimulation to be placed just where you need it.
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Rocks-Off Pink 160mm
R675.00 Incl. VATThe RO-160mm is a big bang bullet that is guaranteed to hit your passion sweet spot every single time. Specially designed for the lovers of the RO Bullet range but this time it’s bigger, bolder and seductively beautiful.
With its gorgeous silken coating, this powerful passion bullet will glide, stroke and tease with every tingling pulsation it gives you.
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Rocks Off Sensations Plug
R505.00 Incl. VATPetite Sensations Plug is a cleverly designed vibrating anal plug, that is ideal for beginners as well as experienced users wanting to enjoy exhilarating thrills in a petite package. The Ultra-soft body-safe silicone allows the plugs slim tapered tip to slide smoothly inside you. Once fully inserted, the real pleasure begins. The 7 function vibrating bullet to cast orgasm-inspiring vibrations in and around that highly sensitive area and then up through the Plug to its tip.
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Rocks-Off Golden Balls
R599.00 Incl. VATTone and delight your pelvic floor with ripples of precious rose gold as these perfectly weighted pleasure balls tease and tantalise your secret places.
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Rocks-Off Truly Yours Rouge Allure 160mm
R540.00 Incl. VATThe RO-160mm is a big bang bullet that is guaranteed to hit your passion sweet spot every single time. Specially designed for the lovers of the RO Bullet range but this time it’s bigger, bolder and seductively beautiful.
With its gorgeous silken coating this powerful passion bullet will glide, stroke and tease with every tingling pulsation it gives you.
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Rocks-Off Truly Yours Red Alert 120mm
R450.00 Incl. VATFeel Your Heart Flutter
True love is yours to hold with each potent vibration of this stunningly beautiful pleasure bullet.
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Rocks Off Sensations Bubbles
R505.00 Incl. VATFeel your body tremble with pleasure as you insert each bubble and embrace the rising arousal as their girth widens.
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Rocks Off Sensations Pearls
R485.00 Incl. VATThis slim set of vibrating anal beads is ideal for those who are new to anal play or those experienced users that crave that world-changing sensation over and over. Let your anticipation turn to rewarding pleasure as you slip in each pearl, one by one and then remove them at the point of orgasm for ultimate pleasure.
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Fleshlight Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit
R1,905.00 Incl. VATIncrease bedroom stamina and train yourself to last longer with the hyper-realistic Pink Lady STU Fleshlight. Tighter than the original Fleshlight with stimulating textures, the unit offers you pleasure while enabling you to become a better lover.
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Fleshlight Wash 100ml
R265.00 Incl. VATKeeping your fleshlight and other realistic sex toys clean has never been easier with Fleshwash. Fleshwash is a fast and effective way to disinfect your toys with its antibacterial properties. Spray directly onto toys after use and let airdry before next use.
Suitable for use on latex, SuperSkin and silicone.
Fleshlight Pink Lady
R1,905.00 Incl. VATThe Classic Pink Lady Fleshlight offers a smooth sleeve designed for those who are more sensitive or want to make their sessions last longer and improve performance.
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Fleshlight Girls Stoya Destroya
R1,895.00 Incl. VATUnparalleled pillowy softness pairs with the realistically sculpted lips of porn actress Stoya for a thrust and squirt experience that’s as good as the real McCoy. Her 9-inch canal can accommodate most men balls-deep for absolute immersion.
An ultra-realistic representation based on Stoya herself, this Fleshlight features a tight opening with three rings and a 360-degree pleasure dome that opens up a rush of sensations. Delve further to encounter a small row of fangs that delightfully rub and pull during play.
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Fleshlight Fleshlube Water 100ml
R325.00Enhance your realistic sex toy experience with Fleshlube, a specially formulated water-based lube from the Fleshlight collection. With a softening, hypoallergenic formula and super-slippery formula, enjoy heightened stimulation and pleasure.
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Fleshlight Launch
R8,590.00 Incl. VATIt’s the exciting, interactive Fleshlight accessory that fans have fantasised about! The brand new Fleshlight Launch will change the way you play – adding fresh new virtual reality content to your stroking experience. The lightweight Launch also automates your pleasure – simply set the controls, lie back and enjoy a unique fantasy experience that excites your body and mind, stroke by stroke.
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Learn More About BDSM
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A High Impact Play
Impact is often an integral part of a Play/Scene and a Top must be proficient with an implement before considering using it for high impact. Experience is of course a great way to learn required skills, but it is always worthwhile asking others for advice and guidance. Before engaging in any high impact Play, be confident in what you plan, be clear of what the immediate risks are and be prepared for the possibility of something going wrong
Contrasting Sensations Impact Play
Once you have some experience as a Top and feel you are ready to move on from a sensual play, increasing the impact and contrast could be the next step for you. This play will require a good understanding of your own abilities along with a level of control which allows you to respond to your subject.
A Sensual, Light Impact Play
When introduced to BDSM, it is quite common to feel as if you have entered into a whole new world of things you have never seen before and all you know is that you want to try EVERYTHING!
Aftercare: The What, The How, and The Why
Aftercare is as important as a play itself. I have even written aftercare into contracts before, because inadequate aftercare can have detrimental consequences for the bottom. Aftercare should form part of the play negotiations. Both top and bottom should know what is expected of each other with special care taken where the play will be a new experience.
How To Be Part Of The BDSM Lifestyle.
When starting to explore BDSM, remember that there’s no need to rush to create your own perfectly stocked dungeon room. To begin, you could try being blindfolded and let your partner tickle you with a feather, or lightly stroke your skin with a flogger. If that turns you on, move towards slightly racier bondage play, like binding wrists with a silk tie or, a massage candle being dripped on your skin, or exploring the sensation of playful spanking.