Contrasting Sensations Impact Play

Written by Handson

Suitable for the moderate skill level of Top and with a bottom that shows some masochistic tendencies.  

Once you have some experience as a Top and feel you are ready to move on from a sensual play, increasing the impact and contrast could be the next step for you.  This play will require a good understanding of your own abilities along with a level of control which allows you to respond to your subject. 

You will need: 

Medium-sized paddle 
Large Paddle 
Sandpaper or something abrasive.
Soft Cloth 
Spanking Bench or something similar.

What to do:

  1. Bend bottom over bench exposing backside.
  2. Begin with bare-handed spanking gradually increasing intensity. 
  3. Introduce the medium-sized paddle with 3 – 5 strikes across the backside followed by some more bare-handed spanking. 
  4. Alternate between barehanded spanking and the medium-sized paddle.
  5. Once at approximately 75% of the bottom’s threshold with the medium-sized paddle. Begin to introduce contrasting sensations:
  6. Use ice over the backside (it is likely to melt relatively quickly so 1 – 2 pieces for each side).
  7. Then introduce the large paddle at about 60% of the bottom’s threshold (the ice will sensitize the skin so careful not to shock the bottom) 10 – 12 strikes. 
  8. Use abrasive texture over the sensitive skin for 2 – 3 minutes. 
  9. Use the soft cloth over the sensitive area and even over the back and thighs. 
  10. Use the large paddle again starting at about 60% and increasing to about 70%. 
  11. Use a combination of ice, abrasion and softness followed by the large paddle again, going up to 75%. 
  12. Continue to vary the contrasting sensations followed up with the large paddle going to a maximum of 85%. 
  13. Upon reaching the 85%, bring in the contrasting sensations again, with a little more time spent using the soft cloth.  Then the large paddle at about 60%. 
  14. After the large paddle, use just some ice and then the soft cloth. 
  15. Winding down to the medium paddle at around 45% followed by the soft cloth. 
  16. A few bare-handed spanks with the final soft cloth used over the entire back of the body. 
  17. Sit the bottom up, assess and provide appropriate aftercare (Sweet drink, chocolate, comfort, reassurance). 

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