Why concentrating on the orgasm often leads to frustration and blame and little success.
Many women struggle to orgasm, some have never done so, despite their partners trying so hard. In fact it seems…
The Benefits of Debriefing After Sex
The day after my first sexual experience with my current partner was a bit weird for me, because he asked…
What is Consensual Non-Monogamy, And Why Is It So Intriguing And Controversial?
Let us look at something most people shy away from, and frown upon – Consensual non-monogamy. Consensual non-monogamy covers many…
Sext It Up: Talk Dirty To Me
From Boys to men who say, “I’ll make love to you like you want me to” to Cardi B who says “I wanna spit, I wanna gulp,…
Confidently Single
***Written by Guest Author Lesley J Adams*** Valentine’s Day, or better known to the singletons as “Single Awareness Day” is…
7 Butt Plugs We All Want
Butt plugs have come a very far way since the initial introduction by Dr Young. He claimed they corrected: constipation,…
A Sensual, Light Impact Play
When introduced to BDSM, it is quite common to feel as if you have entered into a whole new world of things you have never seen before and all you know is that you want to try EVERYTHING!
Aftercare: The What, The How, and The Why
Aftercare is as important as a play itself. I have even written aftercare into contracts before, because inadequate aftercare can have detrimental consequences for the bottom. Aftercare should form part of the play negotiations. Both top and bottom should know what is expected of each other with special care taken where the play will be a new experience.
7 Reasons You Should Support Local Businesses.
When you personally know the people behind the business where you’re buying local products and services, you enjoy a connection you…